March 8, 1996
From NBC:
DATELINE
transcripted by Christine Roi
INTRO: They were lovers and partners, on the ice and off. Together, Ekaterina Gordeeva and Sergei Grinkov won 2 Gold medals and the hearts of the world. Then suddenly, last fall, the dream slipped away.
Dr. J. Schwartzberg: “He was technically dead from the time he slupmed to the ice.”
(Jane Pauley, voice-over): Tonight, Ekaterina Gordeeva talks about life, love and starting over without Sergei.
Ekaterina: “It’s terrible, but even that his death helped me to be stronger now…”
(Jane, voice-over): Ekaterina Gordeeva in her first in-depth interview since the death of Sergei Grinkov.
(Jane, voice-over): They were perfection on ice. Figure skating experts say there has never been a pair like Gordeeva and Grinkov. But 2 Olympic Gold medals didn’t tell the story…They were in love and when they skated it was obvious to all, Gordeeva and Grinkov were skating for each other. But in November, their love story took a tragic turn. Tonight, meet Ekaterina Gordeeva, on her own, but not alone.
(Jane, voice-over): Her perspective on the ice is different these days. Now it’s her hand that someone looks to for support. Ekaterina Gordeeva, Katia to her friends, is the big strong one in this skating pair. Her partner today is her little daughter, Daria. As Gordeeva keeps Daria upright on her skates, it’s Daria who keeps her mother pointed forward in life. It’s been four months since the sudden death of her husband and skating partner, Sergei Grinkov. And Katia’s grief has had to give way to the needs of a 3 year old girl.
Ekaterina: If she’ll see me and she smiles to me, how can I, you know, be with the tears on the eyes, and she will ask me right away, why are you crying, you know, and ah, she helps me alot like this.
Jane: She has Sergei’s face..
Ekaterina: Ya, ya, she has Sergei’s face, definitely, and his smile.
(Jane, voice-over): A tiny, but exuberant reminder of the man who was her partner in life.
Ekaterina: He was very handsome, smiled all the time. Strong, tough, ah, great man, wonderful. I’ll be missing him on the ice very much.
(Jane, voice-over): She’s not alone. Sergei Grinkov may have been the best male pairs figure skater of all time. Together, they were simply beautiful. A marriage of technical precision, and breath-taking elegance. But it was not him we were meant to watch. Katia was the radiant centerpiece, lighting up the arena, floating through the air. Knowing that Sergei would always be there to gently return her to the ice. But what took them to another level was that sense of intimacy they conveyed, as if no one was there but the two of them. They were simply a man and a woman in love. They’d been skating together for almost half their lives. It all began here in Moscow, when a coach decided that 11 year old Katia and 15 year old Sergei would make the perfect pair.
Ekaterina: I was alone, and Sergei come over and we started to skate, and the coach said you should try and take each other and try to skate hand by hand.
Jane: Were you nervous?
Ekaterina: Ya, I think I was nervous, but very exciting and interesting.
(Jane, voice-over): Early on, the partnership did have it’s rough moments.
Ekaterina: When he throw me and I have to do certain rotations and land on one foot, but first I didn’t land it for about half a year on one foot. I landed on my…uh….butt.
(Jane, voice-over): This went on month after month, but eventually the landings became flawless, and not too long after, Gordeeva and Grinkov became champions.
(Jane, voice-over): By the time they skated for the Soviet Union on the 1988 Winter Olympics, they had already won 3 World Pairs Championships. But at Calgary, they showed the world what the new standard for Gold would be. After their triumph, a reporter asked the 16 year old Katia whether she might someday need a new partner…Even without a translater, her answer was crystal clear. It was unthinkable.
Jane: Did he ever, um, drop you?
Ekaterina: Yes, two times in almost fifteen years.
(Jane, voice-over): She suffered a concussion as a result once and was hospitalized. He was distraught and apparently, falling in love. Even sportswriters saw something developing, but he didn’t rush her. He was 21. She was 16.
Jane: It was a New Year’s Eve, when, what happened?
Ekaterina: (giggling) Everyone knows just what happened!!
Jane: Well, anybody who doesn’t is about to….what happened on that New Year’s Eve?
Ekaterina: Nothing, nothing really, he just asked me first time to, if he can kiss me.
Jane: He asked you…and what did you say?
Ekaterina: I said yes, of course, I mean I didn’t say anything, I think.
Jane: You were ready though.
Ekaterina: Yes.
(Jane, voice-over): In 1991, Sergei and Katia were married in Moscow. Soon they became a threesome when their daughter, Daria was born.
Ekaterina: A Gold Medal is nothing compared to the feeling when Daria was born. It was like a gift…you know, I never thought I would be able to give birth to someone, you know, give life to someone. It’s something very very, very much, much more special than any…don’t you think so? (giggling)
(Jane, voice-over): It was partly for Daria that they decided to join a colony of other Russian skaters who’d gone pro, living and training in Connecticut. But re-instated as amateurs, they’d come back in 1994, to win another Gold in the Lillehammer Olympic Games. Thanksgiving together in Lake Placid had become an annual tradition for the members of Stars on Ice, as they prepared for their upcoming cross-country tour. This was to have been Sergei and Katia’s fourth year as professionals with the Stars on Ice family, including Scott Hamilton, Paul Wylie, Katarina Witt, Kristi Yamaguchi, Kurt Browning and Roz Sumners. Though Sergei refused to speak the English he seemed to understand, his boundless good nature endeared him to everyone.
Scott Hamilton: He had a very wonderful kind of way about him off the ice. He was bigger than life. He was a mountain. He was a gentle giant.
(Jane, voice-over): November 20th, five days before the scheduled performance of this year’s show, the cast was on a break from a run-through. It was just after 11 in the morning; Sergei and Katia were rehearsing alone with their coach, Marina Zueva. Katia noticed Sergei had missed a move in their program.
Ekaterina: And he was kind of, um, drop his arms, and I understand that’s he probably have some kind of a problem, and I was asking him if it was his back and he just said no…and he feel like he feels dizzy, and then he just quietly sit and then lay on the ice, and then I kept asking him what’s happened and…
(Jane, voice-over): He never answered. Within minutes, emergency medical technicians arrived.
Ekaterina: I understand that something’s happened very scary.
Scott Hamilton: He hasn’t moved, he’s changing colour, um and I looked in and he was surrounded by people, and I looked through the window and I could see Katia and she was scared out of her mind, and my one main thought was (gently pointing up), “Don’t do this..”
(Jane, voice-over): Grinkov was taken by ambulance to a nearby hospital emergency room. Dr. Josh Schwartzberg was on duty that morning.
Dr. Schwartzberg: He had no pulse, he had no blood pressure, he was entirely unconscious, and in spite of attempts to shock his heart with electricity several times, there was never any response.
(Jane, voice-over): Katia and her coach, Marina, nervously waited for word, but neither had any idea how grave the situation was.
Jane: You thought he would be okay…?
Ekaterina: Ya, I mean, there was no questions about it.
(Jane, voice-over): Then the doctor gave her the terrible news, but at first, she didn’t understand his meaning.
Ekaterina: She’s saying me that we lost him, and I, by the time I translate for myself what she said, I still couldn’t believe, I mean, it was, it’s always very, um, unbelievable, and difficult to even understand.
(Jane, voice-over): Finally, she was allowed to return to her husband’s side.
Ekaterina: He was in his skates on this bed, and he really seems like he’s fine and just sleeping. And he was so big, so huge, I couldn’t believe that something could happen with him.
(Jane, voice-over): She unlaced and removed his skates. Sergei Grinkov was buried in Moscow. He was 28 years old.
(Jane, voice-over): Only last month, the skating world paid it’s final tribute to Sergei Grinkov. That night, in Hartford, Ekaterina Gordeeva returned to the ice, alone, at the urging of her friend and coach, Marina Zueva.
Ekaterina: When I went to the ice, Marina said that you should feel that Sergei will help you to skate this number and it will be fine. When I started to skate, I feel double power, double energy, really like someone helped me to skate.
(Jane, voice-over): An autopsy would reveal that the main artery to his heart had been blocked. His father had died of a heart attack, but Sergei had had no warning signs, his first symptom was fatal.
Ekaterina: His death helped me to be stronger now and I’m very lucky, very lucky that I had a chance to meet this wonderful person.
Jane: How do you want Sergei remembered?
Ekaterina: I can’t tell people how to remember Sergei. The only one thing I’d rather do is skate and as long as they see me on the ice, they will remember Sergei.
Jane: Katia is working on a book about her life with Sergei, and at some point, when she’s ready, her place in the Stars On Ice tour is waiting for her.